Life in the oneness is never lonely

As we place less and less emphasis on the external world for our happiness and fulfilment and move to find it within, we ironically become more united with others.  We move from being alone to recognising our togetherness with all people and the universe itself.

The physical aspect of who we are is transient, finite and temporal and as such all that it experiences is fleeting.  On the other hand the non physical of us is infinite and spans all times, all things, all everything.

The more we move away from having a reliance on the material side of our lives the more at one with ourselves we become; the more solid in the feeling of whom we truly are.  Off hand comments by others ruffle our feathers less as they are like the wings of a butterfly against the sturdiness that we have now become.  They flow like the proverbial water off a duck’s back.  They cannot penetrate us for we fully believe they carry no weight in deciding or shaping who we truly are.  The issue lies with the other person and their journey, not ours.  By not absorbing the negative comments [energy] that is pointed in our direction it looses its momentum and returns to where it came from.

We do not feel the need to take things ‘personally’ because there is no personally, there is only oneness.

Those comments which slip through, and some do because we are not perfect, usually contain elements of truth which we do not wish to admit to our self.  Yet because we are comfortable and confident with who we really are we recognise that there is learning for us in the comment or can laugh at the keen eye of the one who passed it.

Enjoy

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(creative commons) photo credit: Clearly Ambiguous

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